If
it
looks
like
you
and
your
spouse
are
facing
divorce,
the
court
should
be
your
last
resort.
Many
couples
do
not
realize
that
there
are
a
variety
of
options
available
to
them
that
can
minimize
harm
and
overall
cost
while
also
improving
outcomes.
At
the
Law
Offices
Of
Cara
L.
Santosuosso,
LLC,
we
specialize
in
using
both
tried-and-true
and
novel
techniques
to
help
you
find
a
smooth
resolution
when
you
are
looking
to
end
your
marriage.
What
is
Alternative
Dispute
Resolution
(ADR)?
Alternative
dispute
resolution
(ADR)
is
a
general
term
used
to
describe
any
means
of
resolving
a
dispute
that
avoids
litigation.
Typically,
the
parties
involved
will
also
be
able
to
come
to
an
agreement,
a
major
factor
that
keeps
divorce
out
of
a
courtroom.
ADR
proceedings
are
typically
confidential,
somewhat
informal,
and
can
be
far
less
stressful
and
taxing
than
a
court
trial.
ADR
is
generally
put
to
best
use
when
a
neutral
third
party–such
as
a
mediator–is
able
to
assist
the
disputing
parties
to
come
to
an
agreement.
A
wide
range
of
techniques
can
be
used
to
help
parties
come
to
a
resolution
by
presenting
creative
solutions
to
fundamental
problems.
Specific
methods
of
alternative
dispute
resolution
include:
Mediation
Collaborative
Divorce
Lawyer-Assisted
Negotiation
However,
there
are
many
more
ways
to
resolve
a
dispute
that
will
ultimately
end
in
divorce.
Each
option
carries
its
own
benefits
and
risks,
but
the
end
goal
remains
the
same:
to
end
a
marriage
in
as
balanced
a
manner
as
possible.
DIY
(The
Kitchen
Table
Method)
-
Best
for
couples
who
had
only
a
short
marriage,
without
children
or
much
shared
property,
and
who
can
decide
together
on
how
their
marital
property
should
be
divided
-
A
lawyer
is
only
needed
to
draft
the
final
agreement
if
it
is
complex
or
very
detailed
-
Having
a
lawyer
draft
the
final
documents
and
assist
the
parties
through
the
finalization
process
can
save
time
and
money
for
the
parties
-
Parties
may
incur
costs
for
drafting
or
filing
fees,
but
usually
the
most
cost-effective
option
Principled
Negotiation
-
One
or
both
spouses
hire
a
lawyer
to
negotiate
and
draft
the
final
agreement
-
Cost
can
include
information
gathering,
limited
negotiations,
revisions,
and
attorney
attendance
at
a
final
hearing
-
When
only
one
spouse
hires
a
lawyer,
they
will
likely
have
an
advantage
over
the
spouse
that
does
not,
who
has
to
gather
and
present
information
and
negotiate
on
their
own
-
A
lawyer
can
be
retained
for
further
needs,
regardless
of
settlement
negotiations
-
Litigation
is
still
a
possibility
-
Possible
budget:
$2,500
to
$10,000
is
a
good
budget
to
keep
in
mind
Mediation
-
Parties
retain
a
mediator,
whether
or
not
they
retain
their
own
attorney
for
personal
advising
-
Spouses
present
data
and
the
mediator
works
to
resolve
issues
and
help
spouses
to
come
to
an
agreement
-
Counsel
can
be
involved
as
much
or
as
little
as
the
parties
require
-
or
not
at
all
-
Costs
may
be
incurred
for
filing
fees,
drafting,
negotiations,
revisions
and
more
-
Parties
control
the
process
and
pace
while
effectively
addressing
interpersonal
issues
-
If
the
mediator
is
an
attorney,
neither
party
can
retain
them
for
individual
legal
counsel
-
Mediation
depends
on
the
spouses
to
provide
relevant
information,
so
there
is
the
risk
of
limited
disclosure
Collaborative
Process
-
Parties
agree
to
no
litigation
from
the
outset
-
Process
is
completely
private,
and
all
information
stays
in
the
hands
of
the
parties
and
their
lawyers
(not
filed
with
the
Court
in
public
documents)
-
Each
individual
hires
a
collaboratively
trained
lawyer
to
represent
their
interests
and
assist
in
gathering
information
-
Jointly
selected
third
party
experts
(i.e.
financial
neutrals,
child-development
experts,
property
appraisers,
etc.)
can
be
involved
at
various
stages
of
the
collaborative
process
-
Costs
can
include
filing
fees,
attorneys’
fees,
negotiations,
drafting,
and
any
necessary
third
party
experts
-
Because
each
party’s
lawyer
(and
any
necessary
experts)
are
present
during
all
negotiations,
both
individuals
can
feel
secure
in
coming
to
a
fair
and
equitable
resolution
-
Collaborative
lawyers
cannot
continue
to
represent
their
clients
outside
of
the
collaborative
divorce
process
-
If
collaboration
breaks
down,
either
party
can
terminate
the
process
and
opt
for
litigation
-
Individuals
may
have
greater
incentive
to
settle,
due
to
cost
and
time
investment
Arbitration
-
An
assigned
arbitrator
or
panel
of
arbitrators
conducts
a
hearing,
takes
evidence
from
each
party,
and
makes
the
final
decision
on
a
couple’s
divorce
proceedings
-
Helpful
for
a
couple
that
has
reached
a
point
where
they
cannot
resolve
a
financial
issue
-
Parties
decide
whether
the
arbitrator’s
ruling
is
binding
or
non-binding;
both
parties
may
opt
for
litigation
in
the
end
-
Arbitration
offers
a
faster
resolution
than
a
court
case
would,
but
remains
more
adversarial
than
other
ADR
options
-
Arbitration
cannot
currently
be
used
to
grant
or
modify
custody
decisions
in
Ohio
Litigation
-
One
or
both
parties
hire
a
lawyer
to
represent
them
in
court,
and
one
party
files
a
Complaint
for
Divorce
-
The
lawyer
will
conduct
a
discovery
investigation,
prepare
for
trial,
and
negotiate
on
their
client’s
behalf
-
Possible
litigation
budgets
for
representation
from
beginning
to
end
in
a
divorce
case
can
range
from
a
conservative
$10,000
or
$15,000
to
$50,000
and
up,
which
includes
filing
fees,
court
costs,
investigation,
expert
fees,
attorney
fees,
preparation
and
attendance
at
trial,
and
more
-
Two
attorneys
are
not
required
in
a
divorce
case,
however
an
unrepresented
spouse
must
sign
a
waiver
acknowledging
that
they
have
forfeited
their
right
to
an
attorney
-
Litigation
may
be
appropriate
and
necessary
in
cases
that
involve
custody
disputes,
domestic
violence,
mental
health
or
substance
abuse
issues,
child
abuse
or
endangerment,
etc.
-
Litigation
can
be
preferable
to
obtain
temporary
court
orders,
restraining
orders,
and
/
or
to
enforce
strict
deadlines
-
Litigation
is
contentious
and
there
is
the
distinct
possibility
that
one
side
could
be
underrepresented
and
their
rights
not
defended,
or
that
the
appeal
process
could
prolong
the
end
of
the
matter
In
the
above
examples,
we
aim
to
make
it
clear
that
every
option
that
lies
before
a
couple
seeking
a
divorce
will
have
a
range
of
variables
that
will
affect
cost.
Each
potential
method
also
carries
its
own
risks
and
benefits,
and
each
couple
will
need
to
seriously
consider
what
they
hold
to
be
most
important
before
settling
on
one
option
over
another.
This
is
the
time
that
a
consultation
with
an
experienced
Cleveland
divorce
attorney
can
make
all
the
difference.
Why
Choose
Alternative
Dispute
Resolution
(ADR)?
Handling
a
divorce
via
litigation
in
a
court
is
a
rigid
and
procedural
approach
to
something
that
is
highly
subjective.
While
a
judge
can
do
their
best
to
understand
the
details
of
any
given
situation,
they
likely
cannot
fully
understand
the
issues
that
may
concern
you
most.
There
are
also
many
variations
between
courtrooms
and
local
procedures
that
could
negatively
affect
the
outcome
for
one
or
both
parties.
On
the
other
hand,
when
you
choose
a
method
of
ADR,
you
are
able
to
work
with
an
experienced
collaborative
divorce
lawyer
or
child
custody
attorney
who
can
take
the
time
to
know
your
situation
and
offer
creative,
unique
solutions
to
points
of
dispute.
The
financial
effects
of
divorce
are
always
a
concern
for
a
divorcing
couple,
and
most
ADR
options
keep
investments
of
time
and
money
to
a
minimum.
Since
the
various
ADR
processes
tend
not
to
be
adversarial,
spouses
and
children
can
be
shielded
from
conflict
and
both
parties
can
enjoy
more
permanent
and
satisfying
outcomes.
ADR
also
is
more
likely
to
result
in
better
personal
relationships
that
can
allow
for
more
cordial
co-parenting.
For
expedited,
confidential,
and
flexible
divorce
agreements
that
are
tailor-made
to
fit
your
family,
alternative
dispute
resolution
is
a
must.
To
learn
more
and
discuss
your
case
with
experienced
divorce
lawyers
in
Cleveland,
reach
out
to
the
team
at
the
Law
Offices
Of
Cara
L.
Santosuosso,
LLC
–
we’re
ready
to
help
you
take
control
of
your
situation.
Contact
us
today!